Teen love life!

Dear Auntie.

I have suspicions that a friend of mine keeps cheating on her boyfriend..... he's also a friend of mine (we'll call him y).

I keep seeing her (lets call her x), around a lot of other men, and x has also been seen coming out of hiddin places (e.g bushes) with other men..... so could she possibly be cheating...

She's also been hanging around with another mate of mine (lets call him manwhore) and spends a lot of time alone with him.....

So do you think X is cheating on Y, with manwhore..... and what should I do?

He who shall not be named.....

Right then,
I like this problem, it feels like an episode of Hang Time, only without Teddy... and basketball (on a related note: Teddy, don't smoke PLEASE).
I say that the best thing to do is to confront x. She might not appreciate it, but I think it's the best thing to do. You don't want to blow your proverbial load to x and y at once it a group situation as you could well come out as the bad guy, and even if it is true it would be rather insensitive. Talk to x, appeal to her better nature, it's all you can do. If you leave the responsibility of coming clean to her then it will be a lot easier on y. If she doesn't come clean though you may have to reassess the situation and have another chat with that slutty little x.
As for Manwhore, beware! He could be after you next!
Keep me posted,
Much love,

Auntie Greg x

P.S. Best of luck! Remember though... it's not comfortable riding the high horse, don't judge too harshly or you could be the one loses out.

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