Cyber-Worries!

I Found the most perfect man in the world on the t'internet! we had the webcams going he has gorgeous brown eyes and a lovely smile :D until he told me he was a porn comet! apparently it's like a porn star but passing through! im confused! do i carry on talking to him and ignore the fact he does naughty things or hate him forever and condem him to hell? im so confused

miss x

Miss X, if that is your real name...
Hello there, as you know I'm always willing to help and matters of the heart are my sordid specialities. My first concern is this... are you sure you can judge him as being the perfect man just from your internet chats? He has sprung the fact that he is a porn comet on to you, he could tell you that it's not his real picture next, or that he's the Yorkshire Ripper, or worse still Geoffrey Boycott. Try not make this brief relationship more significant than it really is in your mind. You could leave yourself open to being hurt more than you already have been.
As far as the porn comet aspect is concerned, if all his story checks out I wouldn't see this as an impossible hurdle to jump, especially if you are in fact Colin Jackson, or Liam, believe it or not he can jump surprisingly high. We all have to put on an act at work (see 'The Managed Heart', Hochschild, 1983) his one is merely a naked one. Surely you can't hold that against him.
Take it slow and don't meet with him until you really know all the facts.
Much love,

Auntie Greg x

P.S. Hmmm... what county did Boycott play for? Yorkshire! Funny old world...

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