Computer GamingI have recently developed a fetish for a popular online computer game. In an attempt to diminish the chances of alienation from my ginger boyfriend, I suggested we could have a two-player game and bond whilst shooting those colourful yet feisty bubbles of fun. It was a genuine attempt to spice up our relationship but my boyfriend is terrible at said game and this only serves to frustrate me, thus alienating him further. What should I do? Lolita, we can't all be excellent at Bubble Trouble, so you can't blame your boyfrinend for his lack of ability. If you wish to pursue your bubble dreams then maybe it would be a good time for you and your spouse to make sure that you have a few hours to yourselves each day just so that you can strive for excellence in the computer world without irritating or alienating the other. |